Relationship Advice
The real wealth in life is our relationships with God and with others.
Dating & Breakup Recovery
Red flags to watch out for.What lessons can I learn from this?
Marriage
Is this normal? Why does she/he do that?
Parenting
Challenges between parents and children.
Aging parents
Helpless?Demanding? Unreasonable?
Friends
Disappointed? Unpredictable?
Supervisor/ Coworkers
Stressed? Overwhelmed?Conflicts?
Client Reviews
Irene N.
Winny is always good at making good points in conversations, in bunchy and many times humorous ways. I initially thought she's just mastered in skills, but later realized the real power comes from her care for those who come to her for thoughts, especially after she experienced many dramatic life challenges and managed to make them her special power to connect.
She's been the most effective motivator for me to pull out of a down mood due to stress or life challenges. She's not just pointing out the right value, but also very practical in giving suggestions. So as strong headed as I am, I don't easily feel being judged or preached, and won't slip in argument / defensive mode as I normally would.
I'd recommend Winny to those who's experiencing challenges in life, and want to have personalized / practical suggestions / advises, and feel being cared for.
Relationship Advice
It used to take me several years to figure out the problems in a relationship now often they can be identified by just asking a few questions or having a meal together with a person or a couple. Through my healing journey after my divorce, I studied many leading books, went through recovery programs and attended support groups. Not only did they help me recover and identify the causes for my relationship problems, I've also helped many people with theirs. After I reflected on my past relationships and other people's stories with parents, dates, spouse and friends, etc. and I've found there are many common issues rooted from narcissism, codependency, abuse and past hurt. Many people live a seemingly normal life but are hurting inside day in and day out. There were many red flags we ignore and let the problem grow bigger and bigger until it erupts. It is my hope that you can use my experience to identify and avoid toxic relationships, manage and control unhealthy relationships you can't avoid, create and nurture healthy relationships in life.
What I do
- Work as your advisor to help you identify relationship problems and causes.
- Provide a second opinion to your relationship issues.
- Encourage you as your companion when you face challenging relationship problems(dating, breakups, spouse, parent or supervisor, etc.).
- Provide feedbacks as you progress on your relationship improvement.
- Provide resources for study and support group.
How I can help you
Online Zoom workshop or one-on-one meeting.