Divorce was one of my darkest times in life, so it can be for many people. My divorce legal proceeding lasted more than five years- longer than my marriage. It even went through a trial. Nobody will ever understand the stress, damage and hurt it can cause you better than someone who actually went through it. For a period of time, I felt like I went to the court more often than to the supermarket. I do believe my cancer diagnosed a few years later has a lot to do with the stress from my divorce. Fortunately, I was healed physically, emotionally and spiritually thanks to God's grace. It was a long journey. There will be many decisions people need to make before, during and after divorce. Looking back, there were many mistakes and precious lessons I've learned from my past divorce. Hopefully, you can save years of pain using my experience and wisdom learned in the hard way.
Divorce can get much more complicated and painful when there is child(ren) in the family. It requires dramatic perspective change and great wisdom to handle co-parenting issues correctly. Our children's future depends on how we can co-parent wisely. I have a heart for divorced/single mom because I went through it and was able to reconcile and co-parent with my ex-husband to raise our son together in two separate homes in a respectful way. It was not an easy task but can be done.
*I am not an attorney and don't provide legal advice. I do find many people mistakenly try to use court/law to solve emotional, psychological and relationship problems and inevitably hurt everyone(except their lawyers -$$$) involved in all areas and in the long run. That's why you need more than legal advice.
When I took care of my divorce, Winny gave me really detail advice and it's very helpful. She talked with me all her experience on her case. Actually it's not only advice but also a kind of encourage and support in my dark time! She also advised me how to balance working and taking care of kids as a single mom, and how to deal with challenging events such as car accident. Now four years after my divorce I am still appreciated her help. I highly recommend Winny's divorce/single mom support" counseling and she can help you through the tough times in life.
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